Thursday, November 28, 2013

Right person, right time!

Blessed by water...
“I’m the luckiest woman in the world”, this is the sentence that I always use, as well as my friends and even my mom. In the eyes of everyone, I’ve the best husband, he cares about me, and he’s sensitive, gentleman, wise and hard working. He always offers me tokens of gratitude in special occasions, and even without any apparent reason. He brings me flowers, cook delicious food for me and unconditionally take care of our princess baby. That is João and “Yes” he does all of that!

I totally agree with what others when they say that I’m the luckiest woman on earth. I’m not over praising him or just saying this to make all of you jealous, this is really just the man I was lucky to get. 

We are just like everyone else, we try to choose what we think is the best for us. In my personal experience, I tried many times but probably wasn’t at the right time.

When I first met him, I was already passed my teen years, crazy party life, many dating and breaking ups. I was already mature (I think) enough. Our relationship started from a simple friendship and progressed to dating and then from lover to family couple. It was the right time to create a healthy relation. Many friends asked me why I got married with him and, why him? And I proudly repeat the same answer that I’m lucky one because he had chosen me, I’m sure I can’t find a better man in my life.

However, we are alike any other couple, we also fight, argue and disagree, most of the time because of my high temper. I now realize that the most important in married life is “Compromise”.

“Marriage”/ˈmarɪdʒ/, according to the Oxford dictionary, means the formal union of a man and a woman, typically as recognized by law, by which they become husband and wife. This explanation is just for complicated government paper work, for us as long as we love and care about each other everything is precious no matter if “Marriage” word exists or not. 

I already found the “right person” and now it’s the “right time” to go as a couple and family in a sailing boat. I will give up a comfortable life to live frugal with my family and the man who loves me and the one I fall in love with. That is called “marriage”. This project was always João’s dream and I support him in all his decisions and I know I can trust him.

This post is to commemorate our anniversary, the first day we met (2006) and our wedding day, 29th November 2009.
To João, my better half!
We will walk always together


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